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A LESSON BY LESSON SUMMARY
OF
THE SELF-MASTERY BOOK
AND CDs
Lessons
1-15 & Planetary Transformation are available as $10 E-BOOKS
LESSON 1- WHAT IS... SELF-MASTERY?
Good question! Let's begin by defining
the words "Self" and "Mastery!"
When people first hear the term SELF-MASTERY, they usually
associate it with perfectionism or with highly evolved beings
such as Buddha or Jesus. Self-mastery is not about
perfectionism, nor do you have to be as evolved as Buddha or
Jesus to be Self-mastered. If I sent you on a quest to find "the
perfect tree, " after some investigation and discussion you
would probably conclude that there is no such thing as one
perfect tree. It is the same with human beings...we are all
perfect in our own unique way! This concept applies in the same
way to Self-mastery. Your quest is to be the most perfect you
that you can be. You are unique unto the universe, and as such,
your self-actualization will manifest as you master the
perfection that is within you. Your Self-mastery cannot be
picked in someone else's garden!
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LESSON 2- WHY AFFIRMATIONS "ALONE" DON'T
WORK
Doing affirmations alone is like...
putting on a clean shirt before taking a shower!
The affirmation, alone, concept assumes that you have had a
life with functional role models, and that your past was devoid
of physical, sexual, or verbal abuse. It assumes that your mind
is a clean slate, free of past pain, loss, and dysfunctional
experiences. According to this theory you can "PILE ON" positive
affirmations on top of a dysfunctional past and still create the
reality you want. As I discovered, the "PILE IT ON" theory,
alone, just doesn't work! In fact, the more affirmations you say
that do not create the reality you want, the dirtier the slate
of your mind becomes! The average person's mind is cluttered
with contradictory information. This inhibits the input of
positive new affirmations because of the Law of the Universe
that states: "Nothing changes until IT becomes what it is!" This
means that you need to see the whole truth, as it is, without
judgment, regret, or shame, before affirmations will work for
you! You will not create permanent positive change in your life
until you learn how to clean the slate of your mind! Doing
affirmations without cleaning your mind... is like putting on a
clean white shirt, before taking a shower!
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LESSON 3- THE CONSCIOUS CREATION PROCESS
The Conscious Creation Process is a
series of actions that brings about an expected end
result...your desires!
The CONSCIOUS CREATION PROCESS is a series of specific actions
that bring about an expected end result...your desires. It is
through this series of specific spiritual exercises that you can
manifest your desires! The Conscious Creation Process is based
on the following hypothesis: Thoughts create feelings, feelings
create actions, actions create habits, habits create beliefs,
beliefs attract similar beliefs, similar beliefs form belief
systems, belief systems create human identities, and it's your
human identities that create your reality! You create from the
unseen to the seen... from the invisible to the visible! What
you see in front of you has no power over you because it is
simply your old karma running off! Most people think that they
are their thoughts! You are not your thoughts. You are the
creator of your thoughts, and therefore you are FREE to think
any thoughts you want! You can choose to think thoughts of love,
healing, and prosperity OR you can think thoughts of fear, lack,
and dis-ease! This choice brings with it great personal
responsibility, for you shall experience the thoughts that you
choose to think!
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LESSON 4- THE LANGUAGE OF FEELINGS
The Language of Feelings is the Language
of Your Intuitive Self!
The LANGUAGE OF FEELINGS is the language of your intuitive Self!
Your heart feels the intuitive messages that are sent to you by
spirit. Your uncomfortable feelings are messages that you are
out of harmony with your Self. When you resist, repress, or deny
your feelings, you disconnect yourself from your Self. Since the
average emotional age of the adults in the US is only fourteen,
and since most fourteen year olds have not mastered how to
communicate their feelings, most of us have modeled caretakers
who never learned how to maturely communicate how they feel. The
FEELINGS CHART for EMOTIONAL DISTINCTION is an excellent tool to
help you interpret, use, and master your intuitive feelings! You
can use it the same way you would use a dictionary to help you
interpret Russian if you were visiting Russia and didn't know
how to speak the language. Your feelings are messages sent to
you by your Self to help you feel your way through life. As you
learn how to interpret the LANGUAGE OF FEELINGS, you'll begin to
feel your healing feelings, which will help you to row your boat
serenely down your stream of life!"
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LESSON 5- Self-parenting
Mastering the process of fulfilling your
emotional dependency needs.
Self-parenting is... HEART WORK. The primary objectives of the
Self-parenting exercises are to help you fulfill your emotional
dependency needs that was not met during your childhood.
Emotional dependency needs are the intimacy, nurturing,
unconditional love and boundary protection that a person "needs"
in order to feel safe, sane, and secure in the world.
Consciously fulfilling your emotional dependency needs will
allow you to function in the world as an emotionally mature,
highly functional adult. The Self-parenting exercises take the
concept of Self-nurturing from an abstract, hard to understand
theoretical concept and breaks it down piece by piece into a
step by step, easy to understand, specific set of emotionally
Self-nurturing exercises.
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LESSON 6- SPIRITUAL RELATIONSHIPS
Spiritual Relationships are the closest
thing to heaven that you can experience on earth!
A spiritual relationship is formed when two people come
together, as equals, for the purpose of spiritual growth. Such a
relationship creates a holistic environment, which helps you
grow faster than you could on your own. A Spiritual Relationship
challenges you to view exactly what you need to understand about
your feelings. It is a covenant based on the highest degree of
truth and integrity and it acknowledges that both parties are
unique manifestations of the same Spirit. Within a Spiritual
Relationship, you can see through any negative human identities
(roles) and create a space where you and your partner are ONE
spiritually (Namaste). In this spiritual space, you can be
emotionally honest. Emotional honesty creates trust and safety,
which fosters emotional intimacy. A Spiritual Relationship is
much freer than the "Old World Models" because both parties
agree to leave behind the stereotypical roles that existed
merely for protection and survival. This "New World"
relationship creates a safe space where you can willingly
surrender your ego defenses and share your inner most secrets,
repressed feelings and emotions. You can stand emotionally
naked, because you know that within your spiritual relationship
you can communicate the truth of who and what you are...a child
of God!
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LESSON 7- IS YOUR EGO MIND YOUR MASTER?
Your ego mind is a wonderful servant, but
a lousy master!
The human school has a beautiful system of balance created
between the SELF and the EGO MIND. Your ego mind is your
instrument of separateness. Your Self is your vehicle of unity.
This transformational paradox creates a very profound polarity,
between your EGO MIND and your SELF. It manifests as a creative
tension, in which the ego tries to preserve your separateness,
while your Self tries to merge into the unity of all things.
Your EGO MIND isn't good or bad, right or wrong. It is just the
software that your SELF uses to create the human identities that
enable you to function on the earth plane. Your ego is a
survival mechanism that has been evolving for millions of years.
Ego transcendence can be quite a challenge because your ego's
primary purpose is to keep you safe, sane and secure. That's why
psychologists call ego defenses...DEFENSES!
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LESSON 8- The METAPHYSICS OF SELF-MASTERY
The Laws of Life don't discriminate
between good and evil!
The metaphysics of your journey home to your Self unfolds as a
five-step progressive experience from you being ignorant of how
the Laws work, to the progressive realization of how to
consciously use the Laws to create your desires. This
progressive realization allows you to experience contrast, which
enables you to distinguish the illusions of the ego mind from
your dharmic purpose for living: The five step progressive
realizations are (1) You'll experience a phenomenon called the
Ascension/Crash Syndrome (2) You'll become aware of the
Identities that you have created to function on the earth plane
(3) You will Unconsciously Involuntarily Replicate fear
identities over and over again until you learn how to reverse
the process using the Laws of Metaphysics (4) Your Ego will
Unconsciously Avoid dealing with your fear identities, forcing
you to go out of Communication with people you love (5) The last
step is how you'll reverse these negative processes with
positive processes like the SELF-MASTERY PROCESSES, so that you
can create a life filled with loving relationships, health and
prosperity!
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LESSON 9- SPIRITUAL DISTINCTION
MEDITATION
I am Spirit, I have a Body! I am Spirit,
I have a Mind!
One of the first and most important counseling objectives I have
when working with a new client is to teach her how to feel the
difference between her SPIRIT (intuitive heart) and her MIND
(thoughts). The ability to spiritually distinguish between what
you are; a Spirit, from what you have; a body, mind, and
thoughts, is extremely important because it marks the dividing
line between being lost in the illusion of the physical plane or
being spiritually awake to "Being in the world, but not of it"
There are four major spiritual distinctions, which when
mastered, will empower you because they teach you how to feel
the difference between the following:( 1) Spirit and your Ego
Mind (2) Spirit and your Human Identities (3) Intuitive Feelings
and your Emotional Blocks, (4) Adult Powers and your Emotional
Traumas.
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LESSON 10- THE DISCIPLINA'S... Training
Tips for Your Ego
Disciplinas create the life force energy
that you'll need to fuel your... journey home to your Self!
If your Self-Mastery Plan were a rocket ship, the
Self-Mastery Disciplina's would be the FUEL that you would need
for your... journey home to your Self! Disciplina is a Latin
word that means to learn or teach. Disciplina is the root word
from which our word discipline is derived. I've learned not to
use the word discipline because too many people anchor it to
being punished. There are four Self-Mastery Disciplina's, which
create the life force energy that you'll need to fuel your
journey home to Self-Mastery!
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LESSON 11- MONEY MASTERY
Poverty, the cruelest of demons, deprives
a person of every joy in this life master!
When we avoid talking about money, we are cheating ourselves.
Our unwillingness to talk through our money fears has its costs.
Money can be a hot, tricky topic, as intimate as talking about
sex. There is much to be gained by breaking the money taboo and
exploring your beliefs about money. What you think you need and
what you truly need are often very different things. Most people
have been conditioned to associate making money with struggle
and pain, and thus they have come to believe that they can only
earn money by doing things that they don't want to do. Financial
struggle is effort laced with negative emotions. Financial
struggle is a programmed response. A money struggler creates a
life-style that is fragmented, which makes everything that
he/she does to earn money into a painful grind.
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LESSON 12- WEIGHT MASTERY
Eating isn't the problem...it's the
solution!
Weight mastery students are taught that the size of their body
isn't as important as why they substitute food for love. This
Weight Mastery lesson will help you overcome this challenge
because food isn't the problem... it's the solution! You'll
learn how to process your feelings about why you overeat.
Emotional pain is what makes a person heavy, and releasing
repressed feelings is what makes a person light. The primary
reason to eat food is to nourish your body and the primary
reason to feel your feelings is to nourish your soul. Food is
only a temporary fix. Self-love is the permanent solution!
Nourishing your soul with unconditional love is what's
needed.... not more food! Food is just that...food. It's not
love, approval, celebration, or reward.
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LESSON 13- HOLISTIC PARENTING MASTERY
How to integrate the Self-Mastery and Self-Parenting into a
spiritually-based parenting model.
The Holistic Parenting Mastery lesson will instruct you on what
you need to know to raise a child who is balanced in mind, body
and spirit. The primary objective of holistic parenting is to
educate you, "the Parent," how to have a spiritual
relationship with your child, so that he/she will grow up to be
an emotionally mature Self-mastered adult. A spiritually
awakened parent knows that their children have come through
them, but that they did not incarnate for them. In
the eyes of God your children are your spiritual equals who
incarnated to burn karma and fulfill their dharma just like you
did. Parents who have spiritual relationships with their
children are conscious to the fact that their children "live
in the world, but they are not of the world." The more time
that you invest in developing a loving, consciously awakened,
spiritual relationship with your child the better prepared your
child will be to fulfill his/her spiritual purpose for living. A
spiritual, relationship with your child acknowledges that both
of you are unique manifestations of the same Spirit.
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LESSON 14- KARMA AND DHARMA
The Laws of Karma and Dharma
are...divinity in motion!
Another name for the Law of Karma is the Law of Cause and
Effect. The Law of Karma is also referred to as the Law of
Sowing and Reaping because your every action generates a force
of energy that returns to you its kind and therefore...what you
sow you reap! So, when you choose actions that are open, honest
and spiritually centered the fruits of your labor will attract
the same. But, if your actions are riddled with pain, fear and
mistrust, the fruits of your labor will mirror your fear-based
actions! DHARMA IS YOUR UNIQUE SPIRITUAL PURPOSE FOR LIVING.
Everyone has a purpose in life...a unique talent, skill or
ability. Deepak Chopra states the following about dharma, "When
you blend your unique talent with service to others, you
experience the ecstasy and exultation of your own spirit, which
is the ultimate goal of all goals!
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LESSON 15- The TRUTH and nothing but the
TRUTH
The truths that you'll need to steer your
way home to your Self!
The following SEVEN SPIRITUAL TRUTHS will help you to navigate
out of this mental maze we call life, but you'll need to be
willing to undertake your journey home to your Self with
emotional courage, truth and honesty! TRUTH ONE: You have never
made a mistake because... you are incapable of error or failure!
TRUTH TWO: Most of your foundational beliefs are rooted in...
fear! TRUTH THREE: You have no enemies... just lessons! TRUTH
FOUR: As you spiritually ascend with truth, you bring to view
more of your... avoidance patterns! TRUTH FIVE: God is...always
with you! TRUTH SIX: Your spiritual growth...requires action!
TRUTH SEVEN: You have...God like abilities!
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